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Collect and Shelve Women Trophies: Author
Marc Rudov Blasts Unilateral Pursuit in
Article About The Golden Rule |
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Marc
H. Rudov, author of The Man's No-Nonsense
Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance
on Planet Earth (TM), has published a new
article, "The Golden Rule Dictates Your
Sex Life," that outlines the hazards of
men unilaterally pursuing women. Basically,
the traditional courting roles -- man as
hunter and woman as trophy -- impose an
unhealthy imbalance that obviates a peer
relationship, which is the cornerstone of
true mutual respect and a satisfying sex
life. Like it or not, relationships adhere
to the "Golden Rule of the Business World":
whoever has the gold makes the rules. The
article is available from the book's Website:
http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
Los Gatos, CA (PRWEB) January 5, 2004 --
Marc H. Rudov, author of The Man's No-Nonsense
Guide to Women: How to Succeed in Romance
on Planet Earth (TM) (ISBN 0-9745017-0-0),
has published a new article, "The Golden
Rule Dictates Your Sex Life," that outlines
the hazards of men unilaterally pursuing
women. Basically, the traditional courting
roles -- man as hunter and woman as trophy
-- impose an unhealthy imbalance that obviates
a peer relationship, which is the cornerstone
of true mutual respect and a satisfying
sex life. Like it or not, relationships
adhere to the "Golden Rule of the Business
World": whoever has the gold makes the rules.
In a stereotypical situation, a man, by
default, leads and bankrolls the courting
process. Consequently, he feels ownership
of the process and the woman. Notwithstanding
the obvious hazards of such an arrangement,
most romancers are resigned to it. The only
solution, which requires that both men and
women reject years of socialization, is
mutual pursuit. A companion piece to the
book, the article is available for downloading
from the Media & Events page at: http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com.
"Unilateral pursuit is an obsolete, destructive,
demeaning practice for both the pursuers
and the pursued, making both parties unhappy,"
claims Rudov. "In the classical chase, man
plays the aggressor and bounty-seeker, and,
by design, woman plays the target, prize,
conquest, and acquired asset. This power
ritual made sense when women could not vote,
get credit, own property, or be president
of Brown University or CEO of Xerox. But,
it sure as hell doesn't make sense in our
modern world. So, the woman who insists
on being pursued, the passive trophy, must
understand that she is yielding power to
the man, who becomes the one with the gold
and, therefore, the one who will and should
set the rules. In professional sports, after
collecting one trophy, the athlete has but
one mandate: shelve it and win the next
one. Men and women who play the unilateral-pursuit
game always seem to experience the same
phenomenon," explains Author Rudov.
Continuing, Author Rudov admonishes women:
"Quite simply: If you don't want to be treated
like a trophy, don't act like one. Be proactive,
contribute gold, and share control." Rudov
adds, "Men and women should accept only
peer-based, reciprocating relationships
that begin with mutual, simultaneous pursuit."
Contrary to popular belief, Author Rudov
maintains that men and women are from the
same planet but, unfortunately, have been
socialized differently and programmed for
conflict. He counsels men that the only
way to succeed with women is to remove their
layers of socialized behavior and find women
who have done, or are willing to do, likewise.
The Man's No-Nonsense Guide to Women: How
to Succeed in Romance on Planet Earth, which
is available for $17.95 on http://TheMansNoNonsenseGuideToWomen.com,
teaches them how. Both men and women have
been buying the book and validating its
principles.
The book's Website also contains a helpful
advice column for men and women: Dear No-Nonsense
Advisor.
About the Author
Marc H. Rudov, an investment banker and
business consultant residing in Silicon
Valley, California, received his formal
education in engineering and business. He
obtained his vast informal training in relationships
with women through over a decade in the
dating world after his divorce. In addition
to his book, Mr. Rudov wrote the article
"Five Myths About Women." Contact Mr. Rudov
at: info@themansnononsenseguidetowomen.com
Success in Romance on Planet Earth is a
trademark of MHR Enterprises.
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